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Two ordinations – two curates reflect

We now have not one, but two curates in the parish! David Camp was ordained deacon on July 2nd at Guildford Cathedral, the day after Stella Wiseman was ordained priest, also at the Cathedral. Both are serving in the parish on a part-time basis.

Stella was ordained priest a year after her ordination as deacon and will continue her ministry here. As priest she is now able to expand that ministry and can baptise and marry people, as well as conduct funerals, and can also preside at the Eucharist.

Stella Wiseman

Stella reflects: “It is a real privilege, and a slightly scary one, to be an ordained priest here to serve the people in this parish, and I am grateful for all the support and love that has been poured out. The past few years have involved a lot of learning and this is not about to stop! In fact, I am always going to need to carry on learning – the more I try to learn the more I realise I know very little!

“One of the services I am learning to preside at is the Eucharist and this feels a particular honour, as this is central to our worship here in the parish. To be there recalling the immense generosity of God in Jesus, and the welcome which God extends to all of us in drawing us in to share in the bread and wine, which in some way is God’s presence, feels extraordinary and humbling. There is also a lot more to do physically than I ever realised during the Eucharistic Prayer and the actual consecration of the bread, so I probably have a look of extreme concentration as I do this!

“I am also trying to discern exactly what my ministry will look like. I feel very drawn towards the link between faith, creativity and inclusion, but working out what that means is a process and I am trying to listen to God to see what God wants of me and where God is asking me to step.”

David Camp

David says: “After six years of discernment and theological training, becoming ordained has come as something of a relief, having not come from an academic background. The path towards ordination was challenging and as you might expect filled with unexpected highs and lows, and not just on the academic front, but rather as a formation of my own theology as I sought to understand God’s activity in the past and the present and, perhaps most importantly, how God through us will shape the future. Christ’s body, the Church, is going forward into an unprecedented time of change. Final destination assured, but how do we best make use of the time given to us? Perhaps we should ask ourselves this from time to time. I find myself doing this more and more post ordination.

“I don’t think I was quite prepared for the sheer magnitude of the ordination event; in many respects it mirrored the Coronation. A cathedral setting, a beautiful choir, Bishop Andrew proclaiming to the gathered masses our calling to do our duty responding to God’s call. The clergy dressed in the robes of office all in their finery; for a simple lad it was all rather overwhelming. On reflection, perhaps it needed to be grand in order for me at least appreciate the weightiness of self-expectation.

“That may sound like a strange thing to say given our Lords revelation in Matthew 11:28-30 ‘For my yoke is easy and my burden is light’. And yet the process of unburdening I feel is not reserved for the congregation, but for the clergy as well. I don’t think burden becomes light just because you’re ordained. For me at least, it’s about learning to live with that burden of my expectation in communion with the body the church, so that it begins to feel comfortable, familiar or a lightness of spirit. Even Christ uses the term ‘My burden is light’, he doesn’t say you won’t be burdened, but that it will be light. Or perhaps bearable. If you have read Pilgrim’s Progress, the main character, Christian, embarks on a similar journey of faith weighed down with a burden of worry for his loved ones who have refused to join him on his journey. It’s only by the help of those good people he encounters that his burden becomes lighter. So, in essence I am most looking forward to journeying with you all, as we begin to discover what it means to have a lightness of spirit.”

Pictured from left are Alan Crawley, Stella Wiseman, David Camp and Lesley Crawley at  David’s ordination

Pride

We will be celebrating Pride on June 23rd at all three of our churches and online, with special services, prayers and readings in support of and celebrating the LGBTQI+ community.

We are sometimes asked why we hold these services. Pride services are an opportunity to celebrate LGBTQI+ people in their fullness, to look back on strides toward equality, and to imagine a world where celebration and full inclusion is the norm, not an exception. 

The Christian response to LGBTQI+ people has not generally been one of welcome and the Church as a whole has not felt like a safe space for many people. In fact, Christians have used the Bible as a weapon and the church has contributed to the political, relational and spiritual dehumanizing of LGBTQI+ people.

Our support for Pride is not just a way of saying sorry for the Church’s harmful actions – some of which have led to the death of some of God’s beloved children – but also an opportunity to denounce oppressive practices and ideology while also becoming more fully human ourselves. For when we dehumanise others we reduce our own humanity.

In these services we repent of the past and we look with hope to the future. We stand with people who identify as LGBTQI+ and proclaim loudly that all people are loved by God and all people are welcome here. God is Love and we are all fearfully and wonderfully made.

A Week of Accompanied Prayer

There will be a Week of Accompanied Prayer at Guildford Cathedral from October 8-13, hosted by the Spiritual Directors Network.

This week is for anyone in whatever place they may be on the spiritual journey. If you sense a longing to deepen your life in God, a desire to make sense of your faith journey or wishing to find different ways to pray then this week may be for you.

Not many of us have the time nor the resources to stay at a retreat house, but this week brings the retreat to you in your everyday life. It starts with a gathering at the cathedral on Sunday, October 8 at 4pm for an initial introduction and then everyone will meet a prayer companion. Everyone will then commit to pray for half an hour a day for the week and to meet daily, at a mutually agreed time and in absolute confidence, with their companion to talk about their experience in the prayer and suggested scriptures.

On Friday, October 13, there is an informal service and refreshments at 7.30pm at a venue to be announced, with the opportunity to hear and share if you wish what the week has been like. If several people in our part of the diocese want to apply, then we can arrange for prayer companions to meet here rather than having to travel to Guildford.

Margaret Bowers, a member of St George’s Church, writes: “I’m very excited to introduce this to you since it was one such accompanied week that opened for me prayer and closeness with God in ways I hadn’t previously experienced nor been taught before. It also led to my training as a Spiritual Director or Companion as someone who journeys alongside others as they too discover a lived experience of God more and more in their everyday lives.

“Certainly, after such a week I felt affirmed in the unconditional love of God, encouraged, supported, surprised, and energised in my spiritual journey and learned a truth that still holds today, which is that when we intentionally set time aside to be with God then God delights in drawing close to us in unexpected and wonderful ways.”

Below you can download an application form to be sent to woapguildford@hotmail.com but if you wish to ask Margaret Bowers anything please contact her at margbowers@aol.com.

Young people and faith – an interfaith discussion

The next meeting of the Women’s Interfaith Group will be at St Mark’s Church on Saturday, July 22, 2.30-4pm. This month we will be discussing how we talk to young people about faith and values. Food will be served by the women of the Ahmadiyya Muslim Women’s Association.

For further information, contact Stella Wiseman.

Dance on your Doorstep with Matthew Bourne’s New Adventures

On Saturday, July 15th, at 11am, Doorstep Duets is coming to Hale Rec in support of the churches.

Three dancers from Matthew Bourne’s New Adventures, based at Farnham Maltings, will perform Back to Us. Choreographed by Glenn Graham, Back to Us is a short, original dance piece exploring the importance of friendship and the need for connection.

The dance will take place outside Southernhay, The Green, Hale, where there will also be a coffee morning in support of the parish.

Messy Church is back!

Messy Church returns this Sunday – July 9th – at 4pm at St Mark’s. This month we are exploring The Big Catch and taking a look at the computer game Guardians of Ancora.

Come along and enjoy craft, songs, games, stories, sandwiches and cakes!

Messy Church is a form of church for children and adults which involves creativity, celebration and hospitality. It typically includes a welcome, a long creative time to explore the biblical theme through getting messy; a short celebration time involving story, prayer, song, games and similar; and a sit-down meal together at tables. All elements are for people of all ages, adults and children.

To find out more contact Michelle Chapman.

Your joint July/August Magazine is here

Our summer holidays parish magazine is here, covering the months of July and August.

With summer here there is plenty going on both inside and out, and among the events featured in this issue are a free Barn Dance at St Mark’s on the evening of July 14th to celebrate the 140th birthday of the church (see page 26) and a performance of Doorstep Duets by Matthew Bourne’s New Adventures in support of a coffee morning for the parish on July 15th (see page 14).

There is also news of a talk on July 21st about how to support people with autism (page 36), family events run by Farnham Maltings at the churches (page 14), events at the Hale Family Centre (page 24), the return of Messy Church on July 9th and Pride services on August 20th (both on page 23).

Among the other articles and notices is a report on our fantastic fete (page 8) and the Christian Aid concert (page 12), plus Craig’s relicensing (page 11) and the Badshot Leader is back again (from page 19) with information on local developments, the environment, the Badshot Bloomers and a fascinating history of Walter Tice.

To read it, click here:

Craig’s Relicensing

Craig Nobbs was relicensed to serve as a Licensed Lay Minister (LLM) in the parish, on Saturday, June 24th, at a service at St Stephen’s Church, Shottermill.

If you were unable to be there, you can watch the licensing here: https://www.youtube.com/@ststephensshottermill5699/streams.

Pictured above Craig and the Bishop of Guildford. Pictured top are Craig and his wife Debbie.

St Mark’s 140th Birthday Barn Dance – Friday, 14th

Join us at St Mark’s, Upper Hale, on the evening of Friday, July 14th, for a barn dance to celebrate the 140th birthday of the church. The doors will open at 6.30pm and the music will start at around 7pm.

Admission is free (donations welcome) and please bring your own refreshments, though tea, coffee, squash and cake will be on sale.

St Mark’s was opened in July 1883 as the daughter church of St John’s in Hale, to enable the residents of Upper Hale to get to church as many of them struggled to get down to St John’s. It was built by local residents using flint from the Common on land given by Bishop Sumner, Bishop of Winchester.

The church, now a Grade II listed building, is home to the Kitty Milroy murals, now recognised as key in the development of mural art in the 20th century, and the work of an unsung major talent. The murals were restored in 2021 and were shortlisted for a Surrey Heritage Award. It also houses ‘Emily‘, a fine Edwardian pipe organ.

St Mark’s is a working church and services are held every Sunday at 11am and Wednesday at 12noon.