Category Archives: Prayer

The Practice of Contemplative Prayer

Would you like to deepen your understanding of God, understand more what God might be calling you to, hear God inside you? If so, join us in an exploration of Contemplative Prayer.

Reverend Stella Wiseman will be running a short course on contemplative prayer this Advent, on Tuesday afternoons at 2pm at St Mark’s, beginning on December 3rd.


Also known as centering prayer, contemplative prayer is a way of bringing ourselves before God in stillness. It is similar to mindfulness practice in that you take a word of short phrase —Maranatha is a good one, or Jesus, or Divine Love – and repeat it slowly in your mind as you breathe in and out, returning to the word or phrase as your mind wanders (and it will) while you sit in silence. You do not sit and think about what has been or what will be, but just are there in the present moment, in the presence of God.

There will be a short introduction and reading at the beginning of each session and then we will spend time in contemplative prayer before a short reading at the end. If you’d like to know more, contact Stella on 07842761919 or email at revd.stella@badshotleaandhale.org

Your November Magazine is Here

The November magazine is here and this month you can find out about All Souls’ and Remembrance, what it means to different people and why some wear red poppies, some wear white and some wear both. There is a piece about our new series on contemplative prayer, information from Hive Helpers, plus the Badshot Leader and the Church Cat who has something to say about not putting people in boxes.

There are also events, reports, news, prayer and, of course, our dedicated advertisers who keep us going. Please do consider using their services.

Happy reading!

All Souls’ services – to remember those we have lost

If you have lost a close friend or family member and would like an opportunity to remember them and light a candle for them, we are holding ‘All Souls’ services’ this weekend. These simple services of music, prayer and reflection will take place as follows:

St John’s, Hale (near the Six Bells roundabout) on Saturday, November 2 at 4pm; St Mark’s, Upper Hale (next to Tesco Express) on Sunday, November 3 at 11am; and St George’s, Badshot Lea (opposite the school) on Sunday, November 3 at 5.30pm.

During the services you will have the opportunity to light a candle in memory of the person or people you have lost.

If you would like any support following the death of a loved one, please contact Rev’d Stella Wiseman, 07842761919.

Your October magazine is here

The October magazine is here and this month you can find out how Bishop Sumner is linked to Farnham Rugby Club, check out what priests wear in church, and discover joy with the Church Cat.

There are also events, reports, news, prayer and, of course, our dedicated advertisers who keep us going. Please do consider using their services.

Happy reading

Pray for peace

In response to the deepening divisions in the world and fear of conflicts escalating, there will be an interfaith gathering for women to pray for peace in Gostrey Meadow, initiated by the parish and the Ahmadiyyah Muslim Women’s Association, on Sunday, September 22nd at 2.30pm.

We invite all women, whatever your faith, to join us to pray for peace and greater understanding between nations, cultures and communities. Apologies that this is just for women, but this is in order to respect the Ahmadiyyah women’s culture. Please let us know if you have any questions and if you plan to come, by phone to 07842761919 or by email to revd.stella@badshotleaandhale.org.

Vacancy update

For those of you keeping track of our recruitment activities, you will know that the closing date for second round of advertising for the post of Rector of Badshot Lea and Hale was in early August. I am disappointed to report that we had no applications, although I have to admit that I am not totally surprised as most parishes take a year to 18 months to fill a vacancy because of the shortage of available clergy. 

We will embark on the third round of advertising soon with a view to interviewing in early January and having someone in post just after Easter 2025. Especially with this type of role, it is about finding the right person at the right time in their ministry and we continue to pray that God will send us the right person at the right time.

I am pleased to report that the team managing the parish during the vacancy has settled into a sound routine and are ready for a long vacancy should that be the case. 

That is not to say that we have not had our challenges, including Rev’d John Evans being unwell for so long. He is now on the road to recovery and leading our services again. We have also realised that Rev’d David Camp needs the support of an incumbent to complete the remaining two years of his training. While we will be sad that we will not see as much of him from September, we are fully supportive of his move to Frensham as the right decision to help him along his ministry journey. 

The news that the tower at St John’s is in a worse state than we thought adds another challenge to just doing the normal. Click here for details of fundraising.

My thanks to those across the parish who are pulling together to help us deliver business as usual to the best of our ability.  If anyone feels that they can help contribute please contact either Stella or me.

Dave Walter
PCC lay vice-chair

Your September magazine is here

We are heading for autumn which means it is Creationtide and time for our September magazine.

It’s a bumper month with lots going on: Creationtide, Harvest, a Scarecrow Drive, the Autumn Craft Market, a concert and cream tea in memory of Frances Whewell, a brand new clothing bank and café, an interfaith prayer event and the first of our Pet Services, as well as all the normal groups, events and services.

Inside you will also find news and reflections on what has been going on recently.

So sit down, relax and happy reading.

Your July and August magazine is here

July is here and so is the July and August magazine from the parish. Inside you will find news of what’s on in the parish this month and the next.

There are lots of other community events and news reports, plus adverts from our advertisers without whom we wouldn’t be able to publish the magazine. Please do use their services and support local businesses.

Happy reading!

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We all have our dragons

A sermon for St George’s Day by Pamela

Today we are celebrating St George’s Day.  St George – the patron saint of England.

I used to have a bit of a problem with St George and couldn’t understand why he was chosen to be England’s patron saint.  This was because all I knew about him was that he was a soldier and he killed a dragon.  It was the dragon that caused me the problem because it sounded as though St George had been invented and came from a fairy tale. 

Of course, once I did some research I discovered quite a lot about him and it turned out that he really existed. He was born in the 3rd century CE, more than 2,000 miles away in Cappadocia (modern day Turkey).

Like many saints, St George was described as a martyr after he died for his Christian faith.

However, it is the dragon bit that I want to concentrate on today. It seems that it was a story that was developed and popularised during the Middle Ages, long after George’s death. One version of the story is that he rescued a Libyan king’s daughter from a dragon and then slayed the monster in return for a promise by the king’s subjects that they would all become Christians and would be baptised. To me the more plausible story is that the story of George’s slaying of the dragon may be a Christian version of the legend of Perseus, who was said to have rescued Andromeda from a sea monster near Lydda.  It may also have simply been to illustrate the battle between good and evil.

The battle between good and evil does seem to have a lot of relevance today. We tend to think of dragons as existing only in children’s fairy tales but I think that there are dragons with us all the time.  Not the large scaley creature with a tail who breathes fire, but the dragons that we fear in our lives.   We often hear of the problems that young children and teenagers have, coping with peer pressure particularly on social media; we hear about bullying and, of course, children may have problems at school and feel under a lot of pressure to succeed in their exams.  There are probably many other things about school which cause worry or anxiety among young people.

Then when we look at what is going on in the world today, we can probably think of political leaders who we may fear or distrust, leaders who misuse their power, who want to make the rest of the world fear them and who seem to be threatening us because they want to have power over us all. When we listen to the news we may get the impression that they are trying to manipulate the people of their own countries into thinking that what they tell them is correct,that they are right, they are good and the rest of the world is evil.

Then there are the many dragons in our own personal lives. We all have fears and worries and stresses in our lives.  People may be under pressure at work, have  monetary worries and wonder how they are going to be able to feed and clothe their children. Older people may wonder how they are going to keep their homes warm. Others may have health issues that cause worry or fear – things that have to be dealt with.  Voluntary workers can feel pressured to do all the things that seem to be expected of them; they may worry about trying to fit everything into their lives, worry about making mistakes and worry about letting others down.

But, as GK Chesterton once wrote:-

“Fairy tales are true not because they tell us that dragons exist but because they tell us that dragons can be beaten” .

So how do we deal with our dragons?  How do we beat them? How do we slay them?

This I think is where our faith in God comes in.  God may not wipe away your fears or your anxieties but I have found that it is the knowledge that God is there with me that helps me.  It has always been in the worst moments of my life that I have been most aware of God – most aware of God’s presence.  It is where prayer comes in.   

 Prayer for me is my sort of chat time with God.  Yes I give thanks for the good things that have happened, but I also talk about people I know who are ill or going through a difficult time and ask God to help them.  In other words I’m asking God to help them deal with their dragons.  I talk about things that are going on in the world – the political dragons that I fear. I talk to God about all the things that worry me; I talk about all my dragons, and I do have dragons.  I don’t use the sort of formal words that you might find in a book of prayers.  I do quite literally pour everything out to God – I talk to God as I would to a trusted friend.  There is a great freedom in doing that because I can talk about anything and everything and at any time and anywhere and not be judged or criticized or told that I am silly to worry about these things.  And yes, I admit, sometimes I get angry with God because I want everything sorted out to make everything alright.  But I don’t think that is God’s way.  God gave us all free will.  God doesn’t control us. 

We have to seek God out, we have to ask for the guidance and the strength that we need and we have to be prepared to listen to that Guidance.   If we ask, I believe God will help us to find the strength that we need to beat those dragons that are trying to devour us.  God will give us the strength to cope with our fears and our anxieties, the strength to cope with our lives whatever the future holds for us. 

So will you ask God to help you to find the strength to deal with your dragons?

Perhaps St George is a good patron saint for us to have for England after all,  someone to intercede for us, to offer up more prayers for us, when our dragons need to be slain.

Remember Psalm 46, verse 1 “God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble”.

Your April magazine is here

Welcome to the April magazine from the Parish. Inside you will find poetry, an obituary of Rev’d John Innes, news about St George’s Day and St Mark’s Day, St Gertrude, prayer, what’s on, the Church Cat, and much more, including our advertisers without whom it would be hard to publish the magazine. Please do check them out and use their services.

Happy reading!