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Pray for peace

In response to the deepening divisions in the world and fear of conflicts escalating, there will be an interfaith gathering for women to pray for peace in Gostrey Meadow, initiated by the parish and the Ahmadiyyah Muslim Women’s Association, on Sunday, September 22nd at 2.30pm.

We invite all women, whatever your faith, to join us to pray for peace and greater understanding between nations, cultures and communities. Apologies that this is just for women, but this is in order to respect the Ahmadiyyah women’s culture. Please let us know if you have any questions and if you plan to come, by phone to 07842761919 or by email to revd.stella@badshotleaandhale.org.

Hiring out our churches – why we do it

Lesley Crawley explains.

I recently heard a talk by the Reverend Sam Wells, Vicar of St Martin-in-the-Fields, and he talked in a very practical way about funding church ministry. There have been various models over the centuries:

The Benefactor – often the Lord of the Manor would upkeep the church and pay for all that was needed. Very handy if you can find yourself a benefactor, but on the other hand perhaps one person could have too much sway – I guess everything, including the vicar’s sermons might have to please the benefactor.

Stewardship – the way that free churches have always organised themselves. If there are 10 people in a church and they give 10 percent of their gross income then they can afford a minister. That is fine for a house church where people meet in houses, but to get a building then a few more people need to give 10 per cent of their gross income! Anglican churches encourage Stewardship too, but rarely can people afford to give quite as much as that, or perhaps there is a different culture around giving amongst Anglicans – the Church of England recommends five per cent of our gross income.

Again, it is very handy to fund the church this way, but perhaps there is an issue that it only involves the church congregation. After all, as Anglicans, everyone in the village is part of the church. Everyone has access to the church building for services – baptisms, weddings and funerals, and for prayer; everyone is part of the ‘cure of souls’ that the vicar promises to look after. Perhaps, therefore, everyone in the village can have a hand in funding the local church. Stewardship alone might be rather inward-looking.

Social enterprise – this involves the community. It can be aspirational, for instance employing only the homeless, but at the heart of every social enterprise is the need to make money. Churches do various things – run preschools, offer themselves as concert venues, sell merchandise, and run cafés. In our case, we hire our churches out as venues for parties, meetings and clubs. Social Enterprise makes the church a seven days a week building, increases by a factor of 10 how many people come through the doors, and brings us into conversation with a huge range of people.

Who are we in conversation and partnership with? Well, lots of people, we can’t list them all but here are some examples:

We have particularly strong links with the Ahmadiyya Muslim Association and now have an interfaith women’s group with them. Stella has been asked to speak at their Itfars (the fast-breaking evening meal which Muslims have during Ramadan) and they are keen to help where they can with community initiatives, eg the Warm Hub. They have joined in our flower festivals, craft markets and the poetry festival. We get a lot of bookings from them at both St Mark’s and St George’s.

The Syro-Malabar Church hire St George’s every week to teach Kerala dancing and took part in our concert for Christian Aid.

Magikats teach students at St George’s every Tuesday and kindly donated £100 for Father Christmas presents at the craft market.

Florescence is a small floristry business at St Mark’s and has sponsored the flower festival.

Alder Valley Brass Band have hired St John’s and St Mark’s and have played at some of our events.

The Badshot Lea Ladies Group brings people from the village into St George’s who might not otherwise feel part of the church.

Baby Ballet have been regular hirers at St George’s for several years and have danced at our parish fete.

Honryu Martial Arts has just started hiring St Mark’s and the leader is keen to help support the church’s work with young people (he’s a counsellor and uses martial arts to support people with behavioural problems).

Luke from Guildford Tai Chi, who books St Mark’s on a Wednesday, took part in the embodied worship series, giving us a free session.

Stella has worked with Right at Home on some memory workshops at their Sunflower Café (for people with dementia) and they have booked St Mark’s and St George’s for various activities. We have a great relationship with them and look forward to more partnership working.

Several groups have donated raffle prizes.

The relationship with the Badshot Lea Working Men’s Club (WMC)is now excellent and we help each other out with parking. They often pay to use our car park. There is a group of older people (mostly in their 80s+) who meet at the club who are very grateful for the car park. Several of them came to the Jubilee tea party last year. Stella has been asked to baptise the son of one of the women who works at the WMC.

In addition to all this, I strongly believe that God gives us everything we need. For years we scratched our heads, wondering how to pay our way, and thanks to God’s mercy, our buildings, members of our congregation within them and Stella running our Social Enterprise, we now can pay our way. We need to do ministry and fund ministry. Hiring our buildings is a mixture of both.

More than anything, our community must experience the church as a blessing. Our hospitality is a reflection of the hospitality of the God we serve. Not long ago, Stella received this email:

I wanted to extend my sincerest gratitude for providing your hall as the venue for my baby’s first birthday party. The event was a great success, and we couldn’t have asked for a better place to celebrate this special day.

Your hall’s facilities and ambience were perfect for the occasion, and our guests thoroughly enjoyed themselves. Your assistance and support throughout the process made the planning much easier, and I truly appreciate your kind cooperation.

Once again, thank you for making my baby’s first birthday party memorable. We are grateful for your generosity and hospitality.

The community are blessing us through this ministry; not just with their money, but with their gifts such as music and dancing, allowing us to share in their ministries and their communities, giving to us out of their expertise. Hopefully, we can offer more than our space; we offer our hospitality, and our faith. For everyone in our villages, we have space that can honour you for us, every relationship is a taste of Christ.

Rev’d Lesley Crawley

Pictured top is St Mark’s Church set up for a party

Women’s Interfaith Meeting

Festivals and why we celebrate them

The next meeting of the Women’s Interfaith Group will be at St Mark’s Church on Saturday, June 24, 2.30-4pm. This month we will be discussing ‘Festivals and why we have celebrate them’. Food will be served by the women of the Ahmadiyya Muslim Women’s Association.

For further information, contact Stella Wiseman.

Different faiths and miracles

Interfaith Women’s Group

The next Interfaith Women’s Group will take place at St Mark’s Church on Saturday, May 20th2.30-4pm when we will be talking about miracles. How does our faith influence our view of miracles, what do we mean by them, do they happen now?

The group is a joint venture between the parish and Lajna Ima’illah, the Ahmadiyya Muslim Women’s Association and usually takes place on the fourth Saturday of each month at St Mark’s but is earlier this month because of the forthcoming half-term.

The group discusses topics that most concern us today, such as social media, gender-based violence, inclusion, education, equality, bringing up children and many more. There is also plenty of tea and cake!

Women of all faiths and none are welcome.

To find out more, contact Stella Wiseman.

Interfaith friendship and facemasks

We now have some cloth face masks for people in the parish, thanks to the work and generosity of the Ahmadiyya Muslim Women’s Association, Lajna Ima’illah UK, in response to the health threat posed by Covid-19.

The churches and the Ahmadiyya Muslim Community, which has its central mosque in Tilford, have been developing close links over the past year and we support each other where we can, so when Lajna UK contacted us last month to ask if we would like face masks we eagerly said yes. If you would like one, let us know.

“Our friends in Lajna UK have been so very generous in giving these masks to us,” says Lesley Crawley. “We are delighted to be continuing to build links with the Ahmadiyya Muslims who have a great heart for the community. We worship a loving God and follow many of the same values, in particular that of love for all people. Thank you again to our sisters from the local Lajna UK and we look forward to spending more time with you after lockdown.”

Ismat Sana, the Aldershot president of the Ahmaddiya Women’s Association, says: “Covid-19 is a new experience and we realised that there was a shortfall in PPE for those that needed it the most. Humanitarian work is massively important to the Ahmadiyya Muslim Community as a whole and something our Women’s Association, Lajna UK, is already passionate about, so we decided to purchase materials and make PPE as a way of assisting our hardworking local community members.”

The Aldershot branch of Lajna UK will be taking part in the Farnham Flower Festival which you will be able to find on this website over the weekend of June 27-28.

If you would like a face mask would you also be willing to video yourself catching a face mask and then throwing it on to the next person? Here Stella Wiseman is caught on camera maintaining social distancing while delivering a mask to Bob Shatwell. Video yourself and send the results to revd.alan@badshotleaandhale.org. Thanks!